Comments on: Ways to Fight Fair http://manymeadows.com/2010/02/22/ways-to-fight-fair/ ...meet us at the table Mon, 30 Jan 2012 12:02:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Donna http://manymeadows.com/2010/02/22/ways-to-fight-fair/#comment-1813 Wed, 24 Feb 2010 04:19:45 +0000 http://manymeadows.com/?p=1574#comment-1813 Wow! That is really good. I think I’ll be printing it out. I tend to just shut down when arguing. I can’t seem to articulate what I’m trying to say and then I get super frustrated. I’ve learned (the hard way) to only say a fourth of what I want to say. Think then speak.

]]> By: Kim Heinecke http://manymeadows.com/2010/02/22/ways-to-fight-fair/#comment-1811 Tue, 23 Feb 2010 13:35:19 +0000 http://manymeadows.com/?p=1574#comment-1811 Good stuff Robin (as always) — For me, remembering the first “Always” is a key. It ususally diffuses the situation a little.

]]> By: Theresa http://manymeadows.com/2010/02/22/ways-to-fight-fair/#comment-1810 Tue, 23 Feb 2010 00:38:08 +0000 http://manymeadows.com/?p=1574#comment-1810 I love the handout…Good Stuff.

I am blessed that Craig and I really don’t fight or argue. Recently though we had an issue. We stopped talking for a momment, took a deep breath and then remembered that we are partners. We think in terms of a team….It is us against the kids….Or when Mel was still alive there were a few times were it was US against the kids and Mel.

When Craig and I take a breath and remember that if anyone else treated the other like this we would go into attack mode. We usually end up having a conversation to resolve the issue.

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