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Next Week – Heritage!

In Uncategorized on Thursday, January 15, 2009 at 9:53 pm

For the next couple of weeks our family is bringing you a series on Heritage.  This is a core value of our family, something that Dirk taught us.  It is a strong passion of his.  He’ll share a couple of days and then you’ll hear some fun (or funny)  memories from some of our kids.  I may even have some things to share ;)  

We hope our experiences will encourage you to keep going during those difficult days of parenting.

We’ve discovered that the rewards far outweigh the efforts.

See you next week!

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Robin

Loving the Begats

In Scripture Thoughts on Wednesday, January 14, 2009 at 11:16 pm

 

The many passages that the Bible offers in way of lineage has often been boring and cumbersome for me,  until I started learning more about the Koran.  Interestingly, the Koran offers NO lineage leading to Muhammad. 

 

No completely amazing and wonderful heritage.

 

I’ve learned to respect and honor the “begats” now…they lead us to Christ!

 

Next time you’re reading those chapters,  maybe they won’t be so boring!

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Robin

Pretty Princess

In Uncategorized on Tuesday, January 13, 2009 at 9:44 pm

Lily (Ali’s daughter) recently turned 4 and asked me to make her a “pink princess cake” for her party. So how did I turn THIS 02princessbatter1 and THIS 13princessbags into THIS? 18princesscake

 

 Come on over to my cake/bookmaking blog and see the steps that transformed batter into a pretty princess.

(And if you don’t want to follow the steps yourself but you still want to impress the people at your party, I’d be happy to make one for your little princess.) :) 19princesscake

I should note that “Boys will be boys”. As I carried the cake into Lily’s party, nephew Will asked, “Is that Lily’s princess cake?” When I said that it was, he responded (with a sly twinkle in his eye), “I’m gonna eat her head off!” (such a boy thing to say!) So, we let him have a bite to prove that Princess’s head was plastic, not cake.

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Did you have memorable cakes when you were a child? Do you make birthday cakes for your loved ones?

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Abbi

You Be the Decorator

In Uncategorized on Monday, January 12, 2009 at 11:08 pm

Last of the popcorn ceiling. (why was that ever popular??)    The French blue wallpaper complete with little pink roses…gone. (Praise God!).  And the last of the original 1984 blue carpet and soft-white walls will soon be a faded memory. 

We are finally remodeling our bedroom. 

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Yeah, I know.  It’s our sanctuary.  The room that should have the most care, but well, we had a “few” other things that needed to come first. 

And best of all…this room will now have a large Jacuzzi tub in it….yep, resort-stylin’, right in our very own bedroom. 

Maybe like this

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Soon it will be time to choose colors for the walls, window treatments, maybe even some new furniture. 

And,  I’m at a loss, and need your help.  Dirk and I have pretty simplistic, eclectic taste.  We have stained concrete floors in the rest of the house, and we’re hoping to do the same in this bedroom. 

So, tell me.  Where do you go for decorative inspiration?  How do you choose your paint colors?  Have any good tips, decorating links, or creative thoughts to share? 

Can you tell I’m thinking about a shade of green?

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Help!

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Robin

Dear Robin

In Dear Robin on Sunday, January 11, 2009 at 8:30 pm

Dear Robin,

 

I am beginning to dread mealtime at our home because of my finicky 9 year old who eats hardly anything.  If it isn’t some type of fried chicken, pasta, mac/cheese, tacos or pizza, he doesn’t like it.  The only veggie he eats is carrots so he literally eats raw carrots every day.

We’ve tried the whole “you’re gonna eat what I fix or go hungry” and the “if you don’t like what I make, fix it yourself” plan and neither have worked.

I’m at a loss.I know in 10 years it won’t matter because he’ll be on his own, but it’s really starting to get to me.

Any advice?

 

OK  - you guys are great at this, so help this mom out.  What are your suggestions to her?  (This time, I’ll post my reply to her as an edit tomorrow.)

robin

 

 

Robin

 

All you commentors had great suggestions.  Thanks!  I knew you would. 

Here is my reply (taken from 2 separate e-mails)

I know a little about a finicky eater.  I have one and now he is 16.    We still ask him to eat a small portion of good foods, even if he doesn’t like them…or at least one bite.  His eating has improved a bit over the years, but food just isn’t important to him.  He could just as soon NOT eat as eat.  And often he just doesn’t.  (I think he could fast for a week and it wouldn’t even bother him.)

 

Pray a lot!  Hang in there with him, appeal to him about his health, require small bites of everything and have LOTS of carrots on hand!  LOL

 

 

Know that he is who he is….(and all this time I thought we could shape and mold our kids into our likeness!..hahaha)

 

He’s a great kid, given to a wonderful family, who is going to do mighty things for the Kingdom. 

 

Food?  Keep feeding him the Word….the rest will take care of itself!

 

Does that help at all?  I do understand your pain.  Man! This parenting stuff is hard sometimes! 

 

Love you, friend!

~Robin

My Kids are Dumbbells

In Lifestyle, Moms on Friday, January 9, 2009 at 7:49 am

I don’t ever want to hear anybody say they don’t have time to exercise.  If you are thinking that about your life, then you just haven’t gotten creative enough about figuring out how to fit that physical training in.  So maybe you’re a busy mom or dad who just can’t justify leaving their kids anymore than you already do to get to the gym.  Well, why not make kid time PT time too!

 

I’ve threatened to write a book called “Baby Dumbbell”.  I don’t want to go through the hassle of getting some doctor to help me make sure my methods are “safe”, so I’ll just get my message out on the web where I don’t have to worry about somebody suing me. . . wait you won’t right?   So, I’m warning you  - use at your own risk!  Grab those dummies (oops, I mean kids)  and let’s get in shape!

 

Set a timer on your watch and start jumping!  Trampoline, jumping jacks, in place – whatever!  You keep your heart rate up for 20 minutes, you are burning some fat off!  Don’t like to jump?  Do a routine of marching, running up and down stairs, walking, jogging, kicks, arm circles, you can even lunge around the yard.  The kids will love it!  Play follow the leader and you can take turns leading – you follow a rambunctious 5 year old around and you’ve had a workout that wouldn’t even rival any military PT! blog-032

 

Yucky weather outside?  Do it inside.  Tables are great for lapping around, crawling is even better inside.  Do bear crawls (on hands and feet), military crawls (on forearms and feet), jump like frogs, hop like bunnies, walk around the room like monsters (stay in a deep squat while walking around and roaring).  Put on some music and dance.  Let them imagine and make up things.

 

Not enough of a challenge?  Play games.  Tag, duck-duck-goose, freeze games, red-light-green-light, hop scotch, red rover, ball games, races, etc.  Set that timer and just keep moving! 

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Ok, so for part of my book (using them as dumbbells).  Hold them and do chest presses, do superman (with them on your feet) and bend and straighten your legs, have them sit on your back while you do push ups.  Hold them in your lap while you do dips.  They can sit on you as you do sit-ups.  Give them a kiss or a five each time you come up! 

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Let them sit on you while you hold a wall squat (back against the wall, legs bent at a 90 degree angle).  While standing lift them up and down.  Hold them and twist at the waist back and forth.  Just grab them and start doing something – be creative!  You’ll be surprised at what you come up with and the kind of workout you can have.

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Maybe one of your resolutions this year is getting in shape.  Maybe it’s to spend more time with your kids too.  Well, you have no excuses now!  Grab them and get moving!  Follow some of these tips and make up some of your own and you are getting that body in shape and for all your little ones know you have just become a cool parent that likes to play with them! 

 

What activities do you like to do to keep you and your kids in shape?

 

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Erin

 

Chocolate and Chicken….Yum!

In Lifestyle, Recipes on Wednesday, January 7, 2009 at 11:29 pm

As promised, two recipes from the Hungry Girl Cookbook.

Death by Chocolate Cupcakes

2 cups moist-style chocolate cake mix (half of an 18.25-oz. box)

Two 25-calorie packets diet hot cocoa mix

1/2 cup fat-free liquid egg substitute (like Egg Beaters Original)

2 tbsp. semi-sweet mini chocolate chips

1 tsp. Splenda No Calorie Sweetener (granulated)

1/8 tsp. salt

Place chocolate chips and the contents of both cocoa packets in a tall glass. Add 12 ounces of boiling water, and stir until chips and cocoa mix have dissolved. Place glass in the freezer to chill for 25 minutes. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Once cocoa has chilled, give it a stir, and mix with all other ingredients in a mixing bowl. Whip batter with a whisk or fork for 2 minutes. Spray a 12-cup muffin pan with nonstick spray, or line it with baking cups. Evenly spoon batter (which will be thin, but don’t worry, your cupcakes will puff up!) into the pan. Place pan in the oven, and bake for 15 minutes. Cupcakes will look shiny when done. MAKES 12 SERVINGS 

Serving Size: 1 cupcake

Calories: 108

Fat: 2.5g

Carbs: 19g

Fiber: 1g

POINTS® value 2*

 

Kickin’ Chicken Pot Pie 

8 oz. raw boneless skinless chicken breast; cut into bite-sized pieces

3 cups  Mixed Vegetables

1 can (10.75 oz.) Campbell’s Condensed Soup, 98% Fat Free Cream of Celery

3 servings Pillsbury Reduced Fat Crescent Rolls (unprepared)

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Saute chicken pieces for several minutes in a pan spritzed with nonstick cooking spray, until chicken is light brown/cooked but still tender; set aside. Heat frozen veggies in microwave according to package. Mix chicken, vegetables and soup together and put in a 9″ round baking dish sprayed with nonstick cooking spray. Place dish in oven and bake for about 30 minutes or until hot and bubbly (stir about halfway through). While dish is cooking, unroll 3 crescent rolls. Combine pieces together with hands to make one large ball of dough. With a rolling pin, roll dough out into a circle to cover top of dish. Add dough to the top of the dish and cook for an additional 15 – 20 minutes or until top is golden brown. Serves 4.

Serving Size: 1/4th pie (approx. 7 oz.)

Calories: 210

Fat: 6g 

Carbs: 24g

Fiber: 2.5g

 *4 Points

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Ali

Goal Tending

In Lifestyle, Uncategorized on Tuesday, January 6, 2009 at 10:17 pm

Here are a couple of ways we try to stay on the healthy eating, weight loss goal.

 

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I recently got the new Hungry Girl cookbook and have tried a few of the recipes.

The thing I like about her cookbook is that it’s “normal food” (those of you who have been on diets before know what I’m talking about.) There is even a chapter called”Guy Food Rocks”. 

Come back tomorrow and I’ll share a couple of recipes from it! 

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Ali

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 You can sign up for Hungry Girl’s daily newsletter for tips and recipes: Hungry Girl newsletter 

One of our favorite recipe sites is at Health Discovery.net   This is their Boot Camp Buddies forum for Weight Watchers.  (Not the easiest forum to use, but loads of recipes).  Scroll down to the recipe section and you’ll find all sorts of recipe categories.  Click on any of the links.  Now scroll all the way to the bottom of the new page.  In the “Display Options” box, click on the drop down menu “from the” and choose “beginning” and then “show thread”.  You should now have many pages of recipes to choose from! Remember to do this each time you open a new page. It’s worth the effort…I promise!

Also, find Abbi and Ali over at Abbi’s new blog The Bod Squad.  Those girls will help you stay focused on your health and losing those unwanted pounds.

And expect plenty of ideas and workout suggestions to come from our resident fitness expert, Erin, or as we lovingly refer to her,  ”Sgt. Simms”.

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Robin

 

 

What are your healthy eating or weight loss helps?

Resolutions? How about Revelations!

In Uncategorized on Monday, January 5, 2009 at 9:32 pm

I’m not much on resolutions, but I love personal revelations.

 

Those “a-ha” moments where a light bulb clicks on from a scripture you read, or something you heard.  Something that changed you or your previous way of thinking.

Did you have any this year?

What rocked your world, knocked you upside the head, or just made your heart smile?  Do share!

John 6:63 The Spirit alone gives eternal life. Human effort accomplishes nothing. And the very words I have spoken to you are spirit and life.

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Robin

Many Goals

In Uncategorized on Sunday, January 4, 2009 at 10:06 pm

If you aim at nothing, you’ll hit it every time.

Our 2009 Goals:

Dirk’s goals

·        Complete the remodel of our bedroom/bathroom

·        Start the extension of our dining room and new den

·        Explore the possibility of incorporating for some business opportunities

·        On a personal note:  Do the Bible reading plan on You Version

Erin’s goals

·        Read the Bible in a year on You Version

·        Remember to fully stretch a few times a week

·        To start and maintain an exercise journal

Anna’s goals

I hope to…

·        Run a full marathon 26.2 miles

·        Seal the deal with the love of my life

·        Continue making my house a home

·        Move forward in my ministry as God leads me

·        Start writing the first draft of my book

·        Read through the Bible with YouVersion.com

Robin’s goals

·        Read through the Bible using You Version’s plan

·        Exercise core muscles daily

·        Grow even more of our vegetables

Abbi’s Goals

      ·        Get married and OFFICIALLY become a  Meadows. :)
 

·        Read one new book a month (preferably in the personal development genre)

·        Get 8 hours of sleep a night

·        Stop biting my nails for good

·        Secure a teaching position in the fall

 Brad’s goals

·  Loose 20 more lbs (already lost 64)

·        Read more

·        Have more daddy dates

Ali’s goals

·        Loose 10 more lbs (already lost 34)

·        Read more

·        Get more hair clients (call me) J

(Alexander and Katie are in Europe until 1/11)

 

 

 

What are your 2009 goals?  Are you reading You Version?  Follow us there.

Erin – danc4god; Dirk – dmeadows; Robin – rmeadows; Anna – annameadows

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