ManyMeadows

No, not my shirt, but I’ve done that before.  You know, half-asleep, or in the dark, you slip your shirt over your head, and it just doesn’t feel right.  And then you realize, Goofy… you put it on backwards.

Just today, after a very long time, I figured out I was doing something else backwards….in my thinking, in my heart. 

I discovered yet another way I get offended. 

‘Bout time, you say. 

Well, thankfully, He isn’t through with me, yet!  I’m still learning.

I discovered that I expect other people to treat me the way I would treat them.   I know.  A revelation, huh? 

When someone, especially someone I expect to know better,  does or says something to me that I would NEVER do or say to them, it is offensive to me.  I take it personally. I get a little bit indignant. 

Self-righteous of me, don’t you think?

You know the scripture.  “Treat others the way you want them to treat you.” (Luke 6:31 NLT)

I just can’t find the one that says “Others will treat you as you treat them.”

If you find it, will you let me know?

Otherwise, I think I’m just going to have to let Him change my backwards thinking, my backwards heart.

And stop being offended. 

~Robin

Last night I attended Converge – the first in a series of monthly meetings at the NW campus of Lifechurch.tv. on worship.  There were nearly 100 people who came, bringing their talents in the areas of music and tech.  Chuck Dennie did an outstanding job of casting vision for this group—a vision which included exhorting us all to be servants in the other ministries of Lifechurch.

His words stirred in me something I was able to share with our youngest sons (also musicians) as we were driving home.

Worship isn’t just about singing, playing instruments or singing on the stage during a weekend experience.

Worship is the outpouring of our hearts, even through the most mundane, regular things we do. 

Worship is seeing God’s hand in the beautiful sunrise.

Worship is smiling at that little one while you’re changing his poopy diaper.

Worship is choosing to love that office or school mate, even when they are unlovable.

Worship is embracing your circumstances, not merely enduring them.

Worship is thinking of others as more important than ourselves.

Worship is accepting that He is in control, and I am not.

Worship is serving.

Worship is loving.

Worship is a natural outflow of what is in our heart.  It is the River of Life flowing through us. 

John 7:38

Anyone who believes in me may come and drink! For the Scriptures declare, ‘Rivers of living water will flow from his heart.’”

Romans 12:1

And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him.

May we be so connected to the Source of Life that nothing comes from us but pure, joyful, humble worship BECAUSE of our relationship to Him—in ALL that we do.

~Robin

She came on a Wednesday night…was assigned to my group. Her dark skin and shy smile attracted me to her immediately. I’m a hugger….and she readily accepted my tight squeeze.

A good listener, she was not distracted by the normal 6th, 7th and 8th grade girl giggling and whispering that happens weekly in our small group. She is serious and has questions and likes to enter into the discussion.

On the 3rd week of her attendance, during the close, her hand went up as one who was ready to give her heart fully to Jesus. At the end of the evening, she came and greeted me with a bright smile, proudly holding her new paperback New Testmament.

The next week, Switch was a little different, as we spent some time praying over the students in our group. She was one of the first ones in my line…tears already steaming down her beautiful brown cheeks. I remember praying about the future and what God has in store for Jamiyah. About her influence in her family and friends.

Last week, we took a little extra time in our group….in fact, we were late getting back to the experience room for the video. But, it was only because Jamiyah was praying aloud for our group. She prayed for each girl’s influence in her family and at school. It wasn’t the simple prayer of a young believer, but it was a bold prayer of a young woman who is sold out, unashamedly all-in.

As we quickly made it to our seats, video already running, my heart was full. What Jamiyah doesn’t even realize is that she influenced a 54 year old lover of Jesus….my faith was made even stronger by her young, yet passionate new faith!

I wonder why it’s called “serving” when I always receive more than I could ever possibly give?

~Robin

Dirk and I are scheduled to speak at a homeschool event in early September.  What would you want to hear from us if you were at the meeting? 

After 35 years of marriage, 7 kiddos, 5 sons/daughters-in-love, 6 grands (+ another the end of October!), home educating for about 30 years (and still going), there is one thing we DO have……NO, not all the answers, but we do have a bit of experience. 

Go ahead.  Ask us anything you want.  And it doesn’t specifically have to be on home education. 

We’re going to be on a vacation for a week, but your questions will help us decide what to speak on….and who knows?  They might even spark a few blogs from us….now THAT would be something new, huh?

Ready…..set…..ASK!

Dirk and Robin

About 2 months ago, Dirk discovered an enlarged lymph on his left side.  It didn’t go away.  He scheduled an appointment with our family doctor who suggested he have it checked out by a surgeon.

The surgeon discovered enlarged lymphs under both his armpits. 

Tuesday morning, June 9, Dirk undergoes a surgical biopsy.

Now, I don’t have to tell you where my mind wants to wander with all sorts of fearful and discouraging thoughts. 

So, I’m choosing instead, to believe that God works ALL things for our good.  I’m choosing to replace my fears with trust in our Healer, Provider, Warrior, and Friend. 

If you’re reading this today, I know you are already praying for all of us.  And I thank you in advance!

You are a blessing to us.

Another blessing

~Robin

How can you discover the vision for your family?

Think about these thoughts:

Your vision needs to be everlasting, and an on-going goal for generations to come.

What is your calling? 

What is important to you?

What will you want to be remembered for?

What makes you come alive?

Next: write your thoughts down.  Share them with your mate.  Brainstorm and write different phrases. 

Try to make it around 10-12 words. 

Teach it to your family.  Place it on your wall. Refer to it often to cast vision to your family. 

What if my husband or wife doesn’t see the need to have a vision statement, but I really desire it?

Pray!  Don’t nag, force-feed, continue making suggestions or get in a huff because they’re not on the same page as you.  Pray!!  Never discount the power of the Holy Spirit.  Live your life with your own vision statement in mind.  Be consistent to it.  Pray!

What makes you or your family come alive? 

Tomorrow, we’ll share our family vision statement with you. 

Dirk and Robin